Imagine someone part Louis Costello, part Oliver Hardy with a fair dose of Charles Addams. I have a vivid sense of humor that others consider a bit weird. Music has been an important part of my life, particularlly Jazz, I'm not a musician, just a listener and at any given moment there's a g playing in my mind (Ishem Jones meets Thelonius Monk?). I like fine dining, gardening, photography (not digital, I have a 'thing' about real film) a single word that would descibe me well is: traditionalist

My Ideal Person I don't know what I'm looking for, for many years I was wedded to my business, now that I'm working for a living (in the job-that-ate-my-brain) I have time for social activities, and 'all my friends are married' (to quote a Tom Waits song). I'm looking for someone who won't change me...someone who would appreciate me just the way I am...someone who won't press charges...
All right, kidding aside, I have many women friends but no girlfriend. I'm looking for a relationship that includes a relationship. [do NOT attempt to diagram that sentence] It would be silly to list an arbritrary shopping list of attributes, for example: "I'm looking for a deaf Korean Amway dealer who wants to adopt and lives within 3 miles of a decent Pizza place"
I don't like driving, so a Passaic/Bergen county resident would be convienient, but I drive 25 miles to work (yuck), routinely travel to Rockland & Westchester to hear music; how far is too far to travel if you've found the one you love?

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