I'm just your average 30 something girl who's bored with the same ho hum stuff she's found in the city. I am a very tough nut to crack and trust me, extremely challenging to turn on. You're going to have to come with a totally different game to even be considered. I am a lady and I expect to be treated like one. So please, gentlemen, come to the table with something other than your level how hard your cock is. Trust me...I know. You might be curious that I too can be horny but I also want to be stimulated mentally. So ask me about movies, books, my writing. Get to know me or be brushed aside. An expansive vocabulary is sexy as hell and nothing turns me on more than a man who likes my sexy intellect as well as my ample breasts, full size and my libido. Read below if you want to know more. Read below.

My Ideal Person I propose “stop being a nice guy and be a gentleman pervert.” A gentleman pervert is a man who is well mannered, polite, and treats the fairer sex with the utmost respect.

At the same time, he has a size nine libido, and he’s not afraid to show it. Treating women with respect does not necessarily include handling them with kid gloves. They are not made of glass. They actually want sex. Perhaps even more than you do. Don’t be shy about the fact that you do too, or they’ll think you’re a nice guy but probably a boring lay.

It’s also worthwhile to develop specific sexual preferences, or if you have them already, don’t be shy to express them when women that possess them bring up the subject. A good example of this would be if a woman were to complain that her butt is too big. A good response would be that you don’t think so, and that a curvy bottom is, in your humble opinion, the very height of female beauty. But like any gentleman, you should not lie. Especially about this. This is your sexuality we’re talking about.

Of course it is bad manners to be too direct. Obviously, “Hey babe, wanna fuck?” is not a proper way to introduce yourself. Taking an interest in an already-occurring conversation or starting with an unrelated topic is best. If your mind is dirty enough, you’ll find enough sexual references to pick up on in the natural progression of any conversation to show precisely how sexual a being you are. Your sexuality is thus not something stated, but something exuded. It’s just there, a part of the very fiber of your being.

When you follow these rules, women don’t see you as being a nice guy who is desperate to get laid, they see you as being an interesting person in a sexual way. And if the chemistry is right, they’ll want to find out more.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Aerosmith, Evanesence, U2, and more

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I sometimes think how much fun it would be to be with porn
star James Deen. Watch and learn, fellas.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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