I am a middle age serious and compassionate black male,. I am looking for a confident and loving TS?TV/TG. Someone that is comfortable with the choice she has made and is willing to let a man compliment and uplift her in her difficult task to suced in being all the woman she can be. I am not about games or experimenting but about establishing something that can last as best friends and more. I think of myself as a very confident, strong willed, accomplished and open-minded per. I am very protective of those that I consider to be special to me, so expect me to very protective of you. I enjoy a night out on the town but really enjoy a night with just you and bottle of wine, gs, cheese and a romantic Video or CD in the confines of my living room on the couch cuddles together. I will retire this time next year or shortly after, so we'll have alot of time to cuddle